Katy Perry recently opened up about her playful and unique approach to motivating her fiancé, Orlando Bloom, to help out around the house. In a revealing episode of the Call Her Daddy podcast, Perry discussed her unconventional “reward system,” offering Bloom intimate favors in exchange for simple household tasks like cleaning the kitchen
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Love Language: Acts of Service
Perry emphasized that her love language is “acts of service,” meaning she values thoughtful actions over material gifts. For her, there’s nothing more attractive than walking into a spotless kitchen after a long day. “If I come downstairs and the kitchen is clean, all the dishes are done, and the cabinets are closed, you better be ready to get your d*** sucked,” Perry joked with host Alex Cooper.
Perry explained that she doesn’t need extravagant presents to feel loved. Simple, meaningful acts like tidying up the house are enough to keep her satisfied. “I don’t need a shiny red sports car! I can go buy one of those myself,” she said, underscoring the significance of shared responsibility.
Shared Domestic Responsibilities
Perry and Bloom’s relationship, like many others, involves a division of domestic chores. Despite their A-list status, the couple still shares household responsibilities, which can sometimes lead to disagreements. Perry admitted that keeping the kitchen clean has been a point of contention, but the prospect of a “special surprise” might make the chore worth it for Bloom. Perry’s candidness reflects the real-world challenges many couples face, where balancing chores can make or break the harmony at home.
In Fact, Perry Noted That Neglecting Household Duties Can Be a Red Flag in Relationships
“When someone crosses boundaries or thinks they know you better than you know yourself, it’s a problem,” she said, adding that communication and respect are key to avoiding emotional instability in a partnership. This willingness to share domestic responsibilities and engage in light-hearted banter about them may be part of the couple’s secret to keeping their relationship strong.
Couples Therapy and Relationship Growth
The couple, who began dating in 2016 and got engaged in 2019, have had their share of ups and downs, including a brief split. Perry spoke openly about how the two have committed to working on their relationship through couples therapy. Therapy, she noted, has helped them grow both as individuals and as partners. Ensuring that they stay on the same page as they navigate parenthood and their busy careers. “We go to therapy, and it helps us be better parents to our daughter,” Perry shared.
Their daughter, Daisy Dove, is now three years old, and the pop star admitted that having a child shifted the dynamics of their relationship. While their sex life temporarily took a hit after Daisy’s birth, Perry’s playful “reward system” seems to indicate that the couple has found ways to rekindle their romantic connection.
Orlando Bloom’s Response
Orlando Bloom has not been shy about discussing his relationship with Perry in the past. Even admitting that their sex life had changed after Daisy was born. However, it appears that the couple has navigated those challenges with humor and open communication. While Bloom hasn’t publicly responded to Perry’s latest revelations, their light-hearted approach to managing household duties suggests that their bond remains as strong as ever. Their playful dynamic also underscores a broader message about the importance of communication and mutual respect in maintaining a healthy, lasting relationship.
From cleaning up the kitchen to attending therapy, Perry and Bloom show that even high-profile couples face everyday relationship challenges. And in their case, those challenges come with some cheeky incentives that keep the spark alive.
